Personal space for each partner – the pledge of happy family life! While I met with her beloved, I dreamed again: how to spend more time together, then – to live together, to almost not to be separated to make it lots and lots of opportunities for communication, but! We began to live together and what? I began to feel increasingly that I then have to retire and do some reading, then there is a need to communicate on the Internet with a friend who lives in another city, I need to work on what is my project I realized that I'm looking for Personal space in our shared apartment, in his own family! At first I was scared – Ouch! And is this normal? Love the man, but look for free time to be alone But fortunately, I pretty soon realized that the desire for time for yourself and personal space – this is normal and even necessary in life together! Each of the two people in a pair had their own lives before they moved in together! Of course, the couple, the family – this is not a man! So when two of our lives almost merge into one, our way of life varies greatly. And we choose it ourselves, because believe that together we are better than on – one! And so Still, it is important to always remember that we do not get one person to the end:) And even in a joint family life, must remain high proportion of ourselves, our former lives, our personal space and time! Physical space! When two people live together – it is their common home, the total space – like everything now a general! Here – I'm on a personal example, make sure that the person will literally be personal space! Not only in emotional sense, but specifically in the material! Their shelves, where lie only his (her) stuff, where are her creams, his razor Regiment to which he could always throw their cigarette lighters, keys, notebooks, pens, CDs, and know that they had not touch and he will take his things where necessary! Shelf, where only her laptop with the records, clippings from magazines, books and where she knows everything His folder in your computer where it does not climb and do not erase! Its very important photographs of nature computer, which can not be touched, to drag it to another folder – otherwise it will not find them During our life together we have decided on the shelves, cabinets and the space that only it, or just mine (although there are common). I I try not to throw his things in his regiment, but finding it put all things back to where it is always easy to find them! I try to actively and globally do not move, do not rearrange his things. .