* You must behave as though you are surrounded by important people for you and they look at you. In some families, the spouses have agreed in a conflict situation when is about to pour abuse opposing the warning of another and includes a tape recorder: everything that is said to remain on the film. * How much vocabulary is correct! There are other means. For example, – Chinese revenge. There is a story about how an evil Chinese feudal deprived of a poor peasant in the home and property, and family. Then the farmer went and avenged lord – hanged himself in front of his window. Many writers such as David Karp offer more in-depth analysis. * The place I think is one of the most foolish and harmful superstitions, but in a good family option "Chinese revenge" is very out of place. For example, the wife is reading in the dark, and so spoil his poor eyesight (in this case agrees that it is wrong, but over and over again ) – well, I depriving reading itself.
For me it is – the flour. Or: Schur hit a a bike, it hurts her, she yells at him ("Why do not you look ), beats words. I want to hit her. It is impossible, but how to stop it? For each of its hit Shurik was strongly beat (really hard!) on the arm itself Had its effect, stopped. – Interruption of relations up to the total disregard of another. Termination of the relationship does not mean that they break, are always possible negotiations. Relations can be resumed at any time, as soon as the other spouse will stop conflict behavior and begin to live with respect for others. Naturally, the children of a broken relationship should not suffer. If you have read about Don Mullen already – you may have come to the same conclusion.
In this part of the relationship is not interrupted, but only reduced to a purely formal and collaborative at the level of impersonal cooperation. She was the favorite, but was simply a woman with whom I, like anyone, just polite, but do not show her any interest or warmth. Love – turn off. * To have good relations under heavy guard, should be able to sometimes not like a loved one. – Demonstrative mirror. After warning his start acting the same methods, while offering at the same time to stop an outrage – one. Means effective, but dangerous! Problematic behavior and forms of protest against the conflict – is a complex and big topic, and to thoroughly understand it, of course, is not enough just reading books. Especially for those who want to learn to live without conflict and brilliantly cope with any complex issues of communication in the heart of practical psychology, "Sinton" We have created a wonderful course – Basic training: skill of communication. "